Martine Kotze Martine Kotze

Which pattern is running your relationships?

You know something keeps repeating. Maybe it’s the yes you didn’t mean, the hurt that won’t settle, or the same argument you could recite word for word. This short quiz helps you name the pattern underneath.

You’ll get one of three results:‍ ‍

The Disappearing Act: the girl who forgot she had a voice

The Aftershock: will it ever feel normal again?

The Same Fight: you already know how it ends before it starts

It takes about 2 minutes. Your result comes straight to your inbox, along with what to do next.

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Martine Kotze Martine Kotze

Article - 3 Things I wish I knew sooner about my long-term relationship

Long-term relationships that need a spark

When the things that drew you to the relationship in the first place become the very thing you loathe you know that you have work to do. Read and share this article if your long-term relationship needs a spark.



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Martine Kotze Martine Kotze

Affair Proof your relationship

Affair proof your relationship

Infidelity is the leading cause of divorce and it can teach us a lot about relationships. This free resource is here for you to make sure your relationship is thriving.

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Martine Kotze Martine Kotze

The Ultimate Date night

The ultimate date night

Ditch the cliché dinner & movie—make your date nights unforgettable!

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