Who am I and how did I get here?

I can clearly remember the day.

It was springtime, and I don’t know if it was just new life sprouting up around me, but it made me wonder... What’s next for me? Is this as good as it gets?

I saw the bulbs pushing through the ground, knowing in a week or so they’d bloom into unapologetic beauty — bursting with life. I couldn’t help but see the contrast between that flower and my life. I always thought my marriage would bloom like that too — the vision I saw when I met my best friend and we promised each other a life of adventure and love.

Yet here I was. Lonely, unseen, and unheard. A chill rushed through me... was this it?
I felt powerless. Out of options. Tired.

NO.

I wanted to live an expansive life. I wanted to feel joy and aliveness in my marriage. I wanted him to look across a crowded room at me and light up.

I knew our marriage was on a slippery slope — comfortable, but disconnected. I desperately wanted change, but I didn’t know where to start. Was I wrong to want more? Was I selfish when things were “working”? Maybe this was just what long-term marriage looked like — familiar, flat, safe.

My inner voice grew louder every day, until I reached a crossroads. It was raw and real — and there was no going back.

What lay ahead scared me, but I had to decide: stay and rebuild, or leave and start over.

Sixteen years of marriage was a thick book of memories, and I wasn’t ready to close it yet. I knew rebuilding would take courage, vulnerability, and guidance. So, I studied, I read, I attended seminars, and I hired a private coach who gave me the space to rediscover what I truly wanted my relationship to look like.

Slowly, I started seeing changes — not just in my marriage, but in me.

I found a supportive community of women who felt exactly the same: capable and strong, yet longing for something deeper, truer, more connected.

But as we worked through our relationships, I kept noticing how easy it was to understand what needed to change — yet still fall back into the same emotional patterns. I realized how much of our behavior lives below the surface, shaped by old stories and subconscious beliefs that coaching alone couldn’t always reach.

That was my lightbulb moment.

The Next Chapter — Bridging the Gap with Hypnosis

Through years of coaching, I noticed the same thing with my clients:
They experienced powerful shifts inside the coaching container — clarity, confidence, hope — but once the noise of everyday life crept back in, many found themselves slipping into familiar habits and emotional loops.

That’s when I knew I needed a way to create lasting change.

I became a Certified 5-PATH® Hypnosis Professional, adding a tool that could reach where conscious thought can’t — the subconscious mind. Hypnosis bridges the gap between awareness and transformation, helping clients not just understand their patterns, but reprogram them at the root.

Now, in my work, hypnosis and coaching flow together seamlessly. Clients don’t just leave with insights — they leave with integration.
They don’t just learn new patterns — they embody them.

This evolution has reignited my passion and purpose: helping women and couples experience deep, lasting change that reshapes their relationships from the inside out.

Today, my own marriage feels alive and intentional. The “perfect” relationship does not exist, but we talk openly, we choose consciously, and we understand that what we build today shapes the love legacy we leave behind.

I’ve taken my power back — the power to love myself and my partner wholeheartedly. The kind of power that comes from love, not fear.

I know who I am, what I stand for, and what I want my life to mean.

And I want the same for you.

It’s time to stop surviving love — and start creating it.

“I am unshaken because I know who I am and I want the same for you”